Feb 24, 2021
Feb 2, 2021
Sulawesi 2020: Tanah Toraja Part 1
Bismillah...
There is currently a staggering increase of Covid 19 cases in west Malaysia and here we go again with another nationwide MCO. My goal for this MCO is not to get fat and stay productive! Lol I haven't been posting much about my travels for the past few years so tonight I think I will start with our one and only trip in 2020 to Makassar. This 1st February marks its one year anniversary! Which essentially means it's been a year since I've been abroad....
I thought of going there out of a whim one evening. I studied the route first before suggesting it to my travel buddies and Alhamdulillah MR said yes to it despite knowing the date that I've chosen is less than two weeks away after her trip to Kyushu. We spent 8 days in Makassar and our route goes like this
KL - Makassar - Rantepao -Ramang-ramang - Makassar
We arrived in Makassar at noon and had plenty of time to go around the capital city before our night bus to Rentapao. We had lunch in a food court that faces the marina and went to the Fort Rotterdam which was just across the food court. There was a family selling snacks and drinks in front of the fort. The husband offered to drive us around town before sending us to the bus stop with a cheaper fare compare to Grab. To our surprise, he sent us not to the bus stop that we intended to go but to a nearby bus stop in which the departure is much earlier. He gave me his number so he could fetch us from the bus stop when we're back in Makassar. But since he was not so trustworthy after all, I decided to ghost him although he did text me many times after that. We end up arriving in Rentapao at 4 am. And the most horrific thing was, Rentapao has many stray dogs that like to bark ferociously at you!
We were afraid to wake the host up so we waited until the sun was about to rise to ring the bell. She felt guilty that we have waited in front of her porch for hours but we were okay. We were extremely happy to find our comfortable beds after the long journey and after facing the fierce intimidating barks. That afternoon Sarah, our host arranged for us a meeting with a senior local guide, Pak Saleh, who is an expert in Torajan history and culture. The best! Hahaha
I think our itinerary was brilliantly arranged and to me it was the way how Pak Saleh explained about the history and culture that have kept us constantly curious and intrigued for what was next. On our first day in Rentapao we went to visit Kete Kesu Village to have a look at one of the oldest traditional houses in Tana Toraja known as Tongkonan. According to our guide, a Tongkonan symbolizes a strong family bond because building Tongkonan requires labourious efforts from all family members. It is also a symbol of family status. The Tongkonan outer walls are adorned with delicate carvings and buffalo horns. The more horns you see outside, that means the higher the homeowner's social status.
We then went on to visit nearby burial sites. Most of the sites are set on the walls of limestone cliffs. The coffins were either hanging from the side of the cliff or placed inside caves that were carved by highly skilled craftsmen. How high the coffins are positioned is the symbol of the deceased social status. The noble family members are placed in higher places while commoners will rest at the foot of the cliff.
Our last stop for that day was Bori Kalimbuang where more than a hundred megaliths which are called menhir can be found. This place is where families from the highest classes in Toraja hold their funeral ceremonies and the hut in the above picture is where the slaughtering ritual is performed
These megaliths are stones obtained from the mountains which were then carved to its current shape and later underwent several rituals before they were finally erected here. It was not too crowded here and there was this unexplainable peaceful ambiance to this place. Most of the tourists posed with the structures but MR and I thought that it was kind of inappropriate then.
The burial site in this area is unique. The coffins are placed inside holes that were carved into huge boulders. We saw one that was still under construction but there was nobody working then. It looked extremely laborious because they are hand carved!
That' all for now! To be continued...
Jan 10, 2021
2021~
Bismillah...
Before I started with this one, I was looking back at my posts in January last year when I was very hopeful that 2020 would become a better year than 2019. I even posted the recap and the goals in two separate posts! That was just how excited I was about 2020 since in 2019 my grit was consistently tested in all aspects of my life. On the surface, it's easy to conclude that 2020 was such a lame year in which all we did was 'STAY AT HOME'. But when I took some time to look closely at what really happened in my life last year while thinking of what to write for a first post, 2020 was actually not that bad after all. I couldn't even come up with a wordy caption for my annual new year Instagram post because I actually exited the year feeling whole, Alhamdulillah...
I have been living in a fast lane since forever. My childhood were filled with sports or art classes (in which I end up with the least mastery hahaha). Same goes for my teen years; I am perhaps one of the most active student of my batch. I was in the debate team, public speaking, choir, played volleyball, played basketball... Name it, I most probably have tried and trained in it all~ Being busy has always been part of my life that I just can't sit still. Even when I was still blurry of what I wanted to pursue in my career, I manage to find distractions to keep myself occupied. And even in my 30s, when priorities became clearer and I consciously desired a slower pace in life, I still didn't get the time to sit down to quietly and fully reevaluate and restructure life as a whole. But, yes, 2020 has given me that slow pace for reset!
The best thing would be the spare time I have to learn how to break bad habits and replace them with new positive ones. Since there was not much going on, I could repetitively execute them without disturbance, eventually stick to the routine and have guilt when I skipped. I think one of the habit that was severed since I left university was my spiritual and religious commitment. I forgotten when I last completed reciting the whole Al-Quran (khatam). Being too tired after work and unable to focus became an excuse to not open the Al-Quran but then I would still have the energy for sports bleurgh~ So, ya, I tried to improve in this department; by hook and by crook I must open and read the Al-Quran every day!
One of the biggest challenge was MCO entirely disrupted my exercise routine because my main activities for these past few years have always been jogging and playing games like futsal, badminton and volleyball. Tabata was only an option when I can't be outdoor because of the weather or I was up to something that I can't go for the activities in most days of a week. In 2020, I have no choice but to commit myself to self indoor training in my tiny humble room. I am so grateful that this happen when the internet is already fast enough and there are a lot of workout videos in YouTube to try out. And as the result of this, when restrictions were lifted, I came back to the court without losing my stamina! And nowadays I am also back on the walls twice a week. I did gain weight though after the MCO in October. I blame the variety of food choices since restaurants were still allowed to fully operate hahaha but I am on my way shedding these extra kilos!
And one that I cherish most is, although I don't get to see my family in Labuan much in 2020, I manage to reconnect with many of my girlfriends from school. It started right before the second MCO in Sabah when one of them organized a birthday party in one of the resort. From there on, more staycations and meet ups have followed. We reminisced, we updated each other on our current lives, discussed current issues and shared knowledge and insights on topics like family, financial etc. It is very refreshing to be surrounded by people who knew us inside out from living and growing up together for five years. We just talked and talked and talked ceaselessly hahaha
As for 2021, the only thing that I am looking forward to is my Masters application. My application in August didn't past the first screening because I missed the section that tells about the required documents to be emailed. The application was converted to be done fully online last year and there were a lot of confusions. Subsequently, only a small number passed the first screening. I am still hoping to get the University offers and most importantly a scholarship because these are actually the deciding factors that will allow me to make another application for study leave. Like I said I already put my best foot forward hence all I have left is to pray hard for this and leave the rest to Allah~
Ouh.. I also aim to improve my Japanese this year! I don't want what I learned a few years ago to be buried and lost....
