Girls.. Yes, girls only... I think almost all of us have guy friends who we confide things to.. Maybe not to reveal as much as when we confide to a girlfriend.. But.. Yeah.. We have guy friends whom we share stories with. For my part, if I confide anything to a guy, I just wanted to listen to an opinion that's most probably would be from a different perspective than that of girls'. So yeah.. I've good friends... But I'm currently quite upset with one...
Well, recently, he's just weird.. One day he called me by a name that he shouldn't have. And I'd replied
"Kau ni buang tebiat ka apa?"
Maybe he thought I was okay with his joke. But actually I was not. I'm not being prejudice with him. It's just that I don't think it's appropriate fo him to call me that way. Our friendship is based on a firm foundation built with trust after years of acquaintance. I guess it's okay if he wants to flirt with any other girl but please.. Not me...
I'm not that kind of girl.. I'm not flattered with such callings or sweet talks.. I get upset with those things.. Especially when it's from someone I think I know well, I'm constantly in contact with, someone I trust and someone I care...
To some extend, I also feel betrayed.. Because I think he knew I'm not that kind of girl who he could call with names. I so often told him that I feel like punching flirtatious guys, I hate guys who befriended me and purposely want to get close with me because they feel like they have a chance to be more than friends just because I'm single. He knows I hate the kind of guy who text with every girl in the world.. He knows... He knows me very well... I just have no idea why he did that...
I really want him to know that I'm upset with what he did.. I don't expect him to apologize, I just don' want him to do that again.. I don't know how to let him know how I feel about it.. That's why I hope he reads this...
Jun 28, 2011
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ok,i'm sorry if my comments here are not welcomed,but i think yeah, congrats to you. because hey, not many have courage to spill things that they really want to speak out. i think IF the guy reads this, he will ask 4 ur apology, if he sayangkan ur friendship. but if he's NOT read this, dont worry,
after u spilled all these things here, you'll feel like "whoaa what a relief". at least, tak la terperam all inside your head.
p/s : but wait, as i read for the 2nd time of this entry,it made me think, what if he is really 'that' type of guy? i mean like easily say something 'mushy lovey dovey' to EVERYONE, without any feeling? idk. just my thought.
but if he knows u really well,or u've warned him not to say that things earlier,but he did. he should mintak maaf from u.
dont worry kak jiji,be happy,k. cheers. =)
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